19 December 2012
Notes from a packrat with minimalistic desires: Letting go of what's already lost
I lost some thing that was very useful to me, to which I had a pragmatic attachment. I had also had the thing for close to ten years, so I felt somewhat sentimentally attached too. I was in NYC for the day. I lost it a) on a park bench, b) in a subway station, or c) at a coffee shop. Once I realized the thing was missing from my person, I started retracing my steps, first physically, then mentally. When I reached place (a), I sat down to ponder. I could spend the next hour plus looking for the thing that may not be found (I strongly suspected wherever I had left it, it had been taken by now) or I could let it go. Was there anything about this thing that I absolutely needed? The answer was no. So I let it go, and went home.